Major Update

So, Got Married!

Can't believe I am married. Specially because I don't feel like anything changed. Feels like I've always been married. I guess that happens when you marry the person you have been with for almost a decade. 


The most interesting thing I noticed was how easy tania and I got used to each others company. I mean we spent time together before but not like married. We talk more than people married for a decade. It will have ups and downs like most things in life but I can say with absolute certainty, I am married to my soulmate.


I am allergic to thaughts like 'Do I deserve her?', 'Gift from god', 'Blessing' etc. I beleive in putting in the work and reaping the benefits. But no matter how I think, I can't fathom how I ended up with her. I developed such a tight exterior to make up for my lack of social skills, it's mind numbing how much red flags Tania overlooked. My only wish is that I don't let her down in any way.


I remember that office quote.


"You assume your parents are soulmates. My kids are gonna be right about that."

 Not that we want kids.

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